2010 approaching..

Ahh...it' s another year gone...so many to reflect, work towards, repent, improve, etc. Getting abit greedy recently which i hope i can change (for better) next year..promise hubby that after buying the Loewe bag for me, i will not buy anymore bags. But went Orchard again today and entered into Prada boutique..THEN..i came out wif a new bag AGAIN!! Haiz..felt so guilty after buying..knowing that we are preparing for wedding and hse reno...should have saved $$...but i just can't resist...arghh...really hate myself..anyway..i promised hubby not to buy any more bags for the next 2 years (finger crossed). Hubby spoilt me already..everytime i want something..he will try to fulfil it..YES...no joke...last week i brought him to Volkswagon showroom and showed him the car that i like alot..and he said we shall change to that car after our wedding...then i told him i wan to play Nintendo Wii..and he bought it for me also...i really felt happy lor...but at the same time guilty...

So my resolution for 2010 is to be more sensible and fulfil my role as a good wife...:) Ganbate!

Reno headache

Wedding preps 3/4 done..now comes the house reno headache...one more mth b4 our reno starts and now..so many things to finalize...i will be incharge of the furniture & deco while hubby will take charge of the electrical staffs (washing machine, tv, etc)...actually wanna reno our hse after wedding but hubby wanna settle everything asap so we can start our small family soon..(erm..yes...HE can't wait for a baby...keke)...although there are still 5 more mths...times seems to be chasing up...in fact..i am quite eager to see our done up hse...wondering how it looks like..hehe..

Hungry man is an angry man!

Last Sat, i took a nap..and when i woke up at night..i was in a damn bad mood becos i was HUNGRY..yes..i need to eat immediately when i am famish or else i will be very nasty..and of cos..my poor hubby kena from me..(becos he is the 1st person i see when i woke up)..come to think about it..i felt so guilty lor..i demand to eat immediately and flare up at every small thing that i came in my way..luckily hubby knew my 'pattern' and coax me..

Come to think about it..i also dun knw why i cannot control my temper..and poor hubby got to give in to me...maybe i should stock up some tibits just in case next time...:(

Surprise in the morning!

Suddenly had a craving for birdnest last night when i opened the ktichen drawer..the birdnest we bought recently wasnt open yet (too lazy to do so)...i made a casual remark tt i feel like drinking...and u knw wat?? The next morning..hubby woke up early in the morning and heated up the bird nest for me..:) I was taken by surprise becos i didnt knw he was preparing it for me while i was putting on my makeup, preparing for work. He is always so sweet...i guess is becos we are often apart..hence he always make an effort to keep the flame burning...:) hmm...maybe i should think of a surprise for him also hor? Haha..

Beat that bitch!!!

Haha...shocked by the heading of this blog entry right?? Nah..it's just a new story book (recommended by Women's weekly magazine) which i bought at Kinokuniya and finished it within 2 days...the content is damn interesting man...the author being a divorcee..shares her experience and impart some 'skills' and knowledge on how to maintain a happy marriage and how to cope if a divorce is to come...after reading..it seems that being a woman is not easy lor..a quote which i find interesting in this book is...'A man need a woman who can be a MAID in living room...COOK in the kitchen and WHORE in bedroom'...wahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!! I called up hubby who is currently in AU and told him abt it..he couldnt stop laughing and ask me to share wif him what the book says...actually not all the methods mentioned is designed for Asians...so i've got to filter and absorb only those info that i find is applicable to me...

Kinda got hooked...can't wait to go Kinokuniya this weekend to buy more to read..keke...seriously..i strongly recommend everyone to read this book lor...it will help u realise what a wonderful partner you have got and to treasure them every second...sometimes we really overlooked/take for granted their feelings after we are married...*winkz*

Go check this book out!!!

Back from holiday..

Wah...very long never blog liao..just came back from Perth and still in holiday mood..haha..the photoshoot went well and it was fun despite the cold weather. We had many locals congratulating us during our photoshoot and even tourists from England are taking pictures of us..haha..feels weird but it's a nice experience...it was really tiring..driving to so many places in a day is no joke..it was hot and suddenly cold the next moment...extremely challenging... but i enjoyed it..My makeup artist in Perth was so helpful...she chose and arranged for the flowers to be sent to my room on the day of the shoot and prepared an extra hairspray for me to bring along during my shoot..she is really one nice australian...thumb up for her good service!! Can't wait to see the 'completed' pics...hehe

It's time to book my trip to Phuket this Dec..yeah!!

3 days to Perth

Yeah...3 more days and i will fly to AU for 1 week!! Busy packing my luggage and thinking how to pack my gown in the luggage to ensure it doesnt get 'flatten'. Sunday will be a busy day for me...attending bday party then gonna rush to airport for my night flight...very excited becos it is my first time boarding SQ flight from terminal 3...hehe...holiday mood liao...yuppie!

Peaceful Sunday..

Just finished my Sunday service and i am feeling gd...leave all my worries and loads to Lord..and here i am ..all recharged again!! Gona bring my parent and mother-in-law to Sembawang hotspring...heard it is good for those with foot problems...gona give it a try later..hehe...

Finally..confirm my "an chuang' date..yeah!!Now i can slowly do my shopping for the wedding gifts/items..

Grey day..

How does it feels to logon your msn early in the morning to receive an interrogation from someone? Seriously, i am damn pissed off as it spoilt my mood...i am further aggrevated when i was being blamed before the issue was not sorted out...how would i knw that my presence at that place will caused HER to be harassed? How would i knw HE will do such a disgusting act?Why would i do such a thing to a GOOD frd??I have been thru thick and thin wif her...was there when she fell down 2 years back...was there to give her my blessing when she found her mr right....in the end...i was just nothing in her eyes...i was utterly upset..does she knws and does she cares?

I just need to pour out my feelings now...

Yes...she has changed ever since she found her mr right...well..i will not disclose the details and the hidden secrets...i guess only few people knw about it..anyway..i will still give her my blessing and wish them all the best..

I dont feel bad of what had taken place to her few days back..becos i knw deep in my heart...i wasnt in the wrong...i dare to confidently and sincerely say that i treated her truthfully all these years...if she thinks i am that kind of person...there is nothing i can say...

I knw she has told one of frds abt it or even to more people...but i dont care wat they tink of me as they have only heard her one-sided story..

True frds are hard to find and hard to maintain..TRUST is just one thin line between frdship and enemies...

Can i still believe in true frdship?? Time will tell...

JB

Ahhhh....havent been updating my blog for very long already...well...2 weeks back went to Desaru wif my colleagues and stayed over night there...it was my night man!! Won $300 plus playing poker..and $90 in mahjong..wahahhaa...the food in Malaysia is really delicious that i keep pestering hubby to bring me in the following week for makan again...love the bak kut teh and cuttlefish...yum yum...went to Dengah Bay and it was disappointing...the zoo which sounds so interesting...infact only got rabbits and horse...kaoz!!


Recently also busy prepaing for my wedding...headache...got to make arrangement for my Perth trips..book venues for photo taking...book the actual day videoman...try gowns...aiyo...so much things to do...but at least i have settle my wedding ring...finally the setting is completed and solitaire framed!!

I also just purchased the F1 tickets in Sept...this will be my 2nd time attending F1...but first for my brother...too bad Massa will not be racing this time...:(

My new slippers

Cool..i have new slippers liao...nearly went to Espirit to buy one..hengz i didnt buy lor...hubby bought me 3 floppers from Sydney..see the small slippers at the bottom? Hehe...that's a nail clipper set...cute right?

Yeah!! Finally booked our tickets to Australia!! Everything settled...finally...wanted to get budget tickets but in the end..hubby decided to go for SQ..i think he is being spoilt..always taking SQ when he travels...

Can't get enough of holiday trips...already planning for my BKK and Phuket trip for Dec already...haha...miss the shopping and spa there...

Scratched the car

Haiz...went to Ang Mo Kio wif my family to eat durians the other day then hit the kerb when i was parking...haiz..sad..minor injuries though...i guess i was dreaming and talking at the same time tt's why made such a stupid mistake...was quite scared at first becos it's not the 1st time i 'injured' the car when hubby is not in SG..i quickly called up hubby who is in AU to tell him the BAD news...but hengz..hubby didn't say anything..just ask me to relax and enjoy my durians..he said he will settle it when he is back...phew! Sometimes it's just so funny..the more he dont scold me..the more guilty i feel...haiz..he still cheered me up by telling me that he bought some gifts for me over there...then i was so kiasu also lor...took a pic of the damage and emailed him..haiz..really suay..go and eat durian in the end must spend more money..luckily only minor scratches....

Today really not my day lah..walked to my car then some BIG red ants cling onto my shoes and started crawling in the car..in the end i spent so much time KILLING them!!! The thought of them crawling makes my hair stand..i hate ants!!! Tomorrow must send my car for washing liao...must make sure no ants stays in the car...hubby ask me to park the car under the sun and TOAST them to death!! Haha...

Cruise again..

aiya...very long never update my blog liao...Just came back from cruise again..yes..i have nothing to do so went to relax wif my dad again...not going anymore for this few months..cos my schdule very packed liao..going Malacca wif colleagues in July..Perth in Sept and Penang cum Phuket in Dec...oh yah...forget to mention that hubby is in Sydney now..so i went back to my mum's hse to stay..hehe..i seldom send hubby off but last week..when i sent him to the airport...i suddenly felt so sad...esp when he called me a few times when he checked in...haiz...how i wish i can go with him...poor him...took the 8 hrs flight alone...but anyway..he seems to be enjoying himself now lor...went to the casino once he landed..

anyway...i am already in holiday mood liao...total no mood to work..can't wait for 3rd week fo July..going to malacca for food hunting..hehe..

Leaving for Sydney soon..

Ya...hubby is going to Sydney again..but this time round he is gona be lonely becos he is gona take the flight ALONE!!! Haha..but never mind lah...he can enjoy the inflight movies..sleep for awhile then will reach Sydney in 8 hours time..as for me..gona be lonely for 2 weeks..but anyway...i used to it liao...hee..yeah..Sept approaching...it's finally my turn to go Australia!!

Knee surgery

Hubby went for a minor knee surgery to repair his tear ligament..he dragged this op for soooooooo long..finally decided to do it..poor him...got this injury during snow ski in Canada..anyway...hubby is back to normal again...still can go shopping wif me for the whole day...wahaha...ermm...sorry..no pics of his knee will be posted as the 'hole' is too small to be seen...the doc only poke 2 small holes to repair the tear...so no scar at all..so advanced!

Blessed Sunday

It was a normal church service and near to the end, Rev Lim told us that it was his 23rd anniversary today...he was so nervous that he said it was his wedding day today! Haha..see them still so loving after 23 years of marriage..really makes me so envious. It's hard to maintain a relatonship...alot of effort must be put in..we can never fully understand a person thus i am trying my best to learn how to be a 'good' wife..hehe..alright..here is a pic of Rev Lim and his wife..together with the big cake we ate..yum yum!

Hubby coming back!!

Finally hubby coming back!! Saw the news that a 1WO who went to the Africa vocation with hubby died while parachuting...really a sad news. But then parachuting always involves risk i guess...

Back to my work...i am so happy as i am always relaxing in the office..no brainer job...wahaha...maybe becos i feel the work is not as chim as what i am doing in HP last time..haha..shiok lah!!

These few days very busy as we are prepaing for my sis wedding..talking abt it...so angry man...so many conflicts and see the true colours of everyone..haiz..dont wanna talk abt it...SIAN man!! Anyway...not my wedding...i dont care lah...dont knw why a wedding dinner only..so much headaches...luckily my hubby let me decide everything..haiz...beta not dont care!!

My first week of work

Things have been going on smoothly for my work...as compared to my previous job..this is like HEAVEN!! Still not familiar with my work thus have to work extra harder...as hubby is not in SG...i decided to bring my report back and work on it. Kinda tired today as i have been spending the whole morning and atfternoon trying to finish it...time flies...2 more weeks and hubby wil be back..BUT this means that it is coming nearer to the day that i will be left alone to cope with my work..my mentor will be leaving for her new designation soon...luckily she is only sitting 2 cubicles away frm me..still can ask her qtns if i have doubts...hehe...

Yesterday hubby told me he came to look at my blog..i was SURPRISED!! He actually left a comment for me praising abt my photography skill (although not gd lah)..haha..didn't knw he is so free to surf net lor..enjoying himself there man!! Yeah...can start counting down for his return...

Happy Mothers' Day!!

We celebrated Mothers' Day today becos we are afraid tmr will be very rush and also crowded. Tried to call all the hotels and book for a buffet dinner but was shocked to learn that most were fully booked!! Kaoz..finally found Swissotel Merchant Court Hotel..I reserved a table for 6 but was damn angry when the waiter told me they never take down my name thus when i reached there...i had to wait for 10 mins...shit!! I scolded the waiter as i was hungry but i kinda feel bad also...being a stewardess myself last time...i knew sometimes this kind of issue is evitable..

Haiz..we paid so much and yet we were seated outside ..so 'alfresco' style..but bobian...got to endure the heat..luckily the food was great..got fried ice-cream..sharks' fin soup..frogs' legs..yum yum!! Too bad hubby unable to join us..i bet he will drool upon seeing the pics we took..haha

My new SLR camera

Cool!!! My brother bought me a new camera and taught me how to take gd pics..but i am still very blurr...so many things to learn...i only knw hw to take simple pics...brother still got me a magazine to read...like taking exams...haha..but quite fun...ok..below are my test pics...not very gd..but i will try my best to learn how to use it..keke..

OUR room at my in-law house

Oscar standing on the sofa..trying to tempt us to play with her..

Relieved!!!

Phew!!! My first day is over!! The culture is what i always desire...leaving on the dot...no OTs..helpful colleagues...cool!! Finally i can sleep well..so happy...hubby called me several times to ask how m i coping..so touched!!

Recently saw many of my frds using SLR cameras to take beautiful pics..thus told brother to get me a SLR camera..didn't have the time to go around shooting..maybe will do it these few days..to me..memories are impt thus it must be captured clearly and with 'style'...haha..think the first pic i m gona take is our room...i took great pain to tidy up and give the room some 'makeup'..haha...hopefully the pic i post in the next few days will surprise hubby..keke..

Tired...gona sleep soon...tmr must work again...ganbate!!!

Vivocity with Sis

Recv'd a call from hubby yesterday..so happy!!I thought he will go shopping and get something for me...in the end he said he is going to the casino!! Arghh...tempt me!! My hands itchy liao...haha!!

Went shopping with sis yesterday at Vivocity...we were at the lingerie dept where we were served by 2 malaysians who kept following us around when we shopped...aiyo...so irritating..initially i wanted to buy something but in the end i decided not to buy..like flies pestering us...talking abt this..i suddenly recall hubby said that the salesgirl at Victoria's Secret (VS) in USA are very friendly and helpful...he went into the shop and bought something for me and u know what? They actually asked him if they were meant for his wife and they wrapped it up in a fanciful box and sprayed it with perfume!!! Cool!!! Why SG no VS?? Haiz..

Away for 1 mth...

Woke up at 5.30am this morning and drove hubby to base..poor him...never sleep for the whole night...trying to clear his work..i promised to keep to accompany but in the end i dozed off!! So sad...gona miss him for 1 mth...currently staying at my in-law house to take care of the dog...it's so boring man!! The house is so quiet...his brothers are both in NS...in-laws working...only left me and 'Oscar'..sob...sob...trying to keep myself busy by doing household chores and 'jio-ing' frds to play mahjong..really can't wait for 4th May...once i start working..i can drown myself with the the work in office and 1 mth will pass very fast...*gona take a nap liao*....zzzzzzzzzzzz

Star Virgo

Came back yesterday from the cruise...dont know why so tired...maybe i drink too much coffee...unable to sleep for the few nights...the concert by taiwan singer 'Lin Shu Rong' was great...powerful voice and lots of humour...her famous song 'wu yan de jie ju' still sonunds so nice...haha...hubby on the other hand is sick of the food on board...always the same old style of cooking...

As for me..i am counting down...2 more weeks and i will be back to the workforce...hope it will be more relaxing than my previous job..i just wanna have a work-life balance job...not compromising my health and to spend more time with my family...

i just wanna thank my hubby for everything..he has been supporting me these 4 months without complains...bringing me for shopping when i am down..taking me to short trips to cheer me up..in fact what really make me realized that i have got a truly wonderful husband is that he never tell me to go back to the workforce..instead he tells me to do whatever i like..i am really touched:) * Thank u baby*Gona miss him as he will be going overseas for 1 mth...

UNIQLO

Yesterday went UNIQLO with my mother-in-law and hubby...we were shocked at the long queue!! Therefore we decided to go back as my mother-in-law cannot stand for too long...so sad:( The next day..i asked hubby to drop me b4 going to work...and i queued alone..haha...*desperate*...I was persistent to go into the shop and take alook...after a half an hr wait...i finally made it into the shop!! Big shop with controlled number of customers for a better shopping experience...learnt that it is the top selling apparels in Japan...in the end...spent abt 100 bucks in that shop..haha...

Counting down now..tmr hubby bringing me to Orchard for shopping spree b4 boarding Star Virgo in the evening..yeah!!

Planning for honeymoon..

Me and hubby had a discussion yesterday on where to go for honeymoon...very headache man...i wanna go US..but he had been there b4...he wanna go Korea...i had been there b4 too...Canada..Mauritus and Maldives also out as he had been there too...alamak...so in the end..i suggested some places we both have not go b4..Hawaii, Miami, Japan or Europe!!! The thought of going to the beach..already enuf to make me smile..yes...we love the sun!! Recently also managed to tempt him to bring me go cruise again and BINTAN!! Although he told me no more holidays until Sept (going to Perth)..in the end he still give in to me...haha..i am very good at acting kelian...always staying at home makes me bored and lazy leh...SG is also damn boring lor...so sad...gona miss hubby again..going overseas again for a month...think my only way of passing time tis to play mahjong wif my in-laws liao...**Mahjong anyone??**

My new crocs slipper

Hubby told me Crocs slippers are comfortable and it cured his corns on his feet...then i bought the latest design slipper(not the big head type) recently to try..it feels gd leh!!! Comfortable and soft...yesterday went for dinner with my family and persuaded them to buy also...then kena teased by my brother....saying that i am undercover agent for Crocs...haha...hmm...can't get enuf of Crocs...going to Crocs with my brother and buy some more later...haha...

Recently got temptation to give my car a minor makeover....all thanks to my brother!! He is always tempting me with the 'classy' modifications he did to his car...and our topics is always cars these few days..haha..sounds ah bengz...haha...can u imagine we will be going autobac later?? haha..car craze!

Oh...another new update about me is...i am going back to the work force liao!! My health is getting better...put on 2 kg since my last op ...enuf of rest liao...time to work or else i will get bored to death...

Gathering

Recently attended a gathering at my poly mate's hse. A damn cool hse they owned! Warm coloured and cosy feeling..very condo-feel. We had fun playing mahjong and catching up wif one and another..really happy to see everyone get hitched and starting a family of our own. Ermm...but not for me and my hubby...we are still enjoying the process of collecting rental...so we wont be getting back our hse so soon...haha

Oh another update...have finally booked the hotel banquet and in the process of designing my gowns liao...very headache also...all my gowns are made-to-measure...luckily my designer helped me alot in the process...although it's still one year away...i am already feeling the stress...so many things to do leh..but no choice...once in a lifetime...cannot be lazy..hehe

My new OSIM

Hubby bought me a OSIM Usqueeze and Ucrown on his bday..erm..dont ask me why i got present although not my bday...haha..the Usqueeze is really effective man...damn relaxing and we both tried and fell asleep even b4 the session ended...no regrets buying them...now we have to put it in our room instead of living room as i dont want my husky to chew on it...trust me...my husky is destructive...our scv remote control was finished off by her when our heads turned away...arghh!!

Vday cruise

Yup...we r going for a dip in the pool

Hubby enjoying himself at the balcony at night

So cool!! Spent my Vday at Virgo with hubby...and my parents. First time staying in a suite with balcony which cost hubby $1800..Phew! Nice experience...chilling out on the balcony in the middle of the night...just that it's abit warm outside lor. I feel that i am getting addicted to the games in the casino...kept pestering hubby to go with me even though it is damn late liao...haha!! Haiz...3 days not enough leh...must go again...gamble until shiok shiok..haha!!

For the time being..no more holidays until Perth in Sept...can't wait to go man...i just love the weather and the CASINO there..wahahaha!! Gambling again...so now must start saving money to try my luck there...keke...

CNY 2009

Me and Sis posing outside aunt's hse:)

Me and Qianqian

My niece chasing my husky around the hse...haha...

Sian...this year New Year not fun one..everyone starting work on the 3rd day...i still want to gamble leh :(Haiz...must wait until Fri then can continue liao..and the River Ang Bao so boring this year...alamak!

My 2009 wish list

Yeah...it's 2009 and i wanna get myself a watch..hehe..after hubby got me the 1.01 carat diamond ring..i promised him that i will not buy anymore branded bags for this year...thus i will get a watch haha!! Have to start saving and MUST buy that watch after 6 months!! Haha...Aim THAT watch for so long liao..can't wait to buy it in June..my mummy just got one for herself..tempted leh! Ganbate!! Save..save..save!!

My new phase of life

Ohh...so long never pen my blog liao...hmm..i think i am getting lazy..haha...finally i have converted to full time tutoring...YES...i gave up a high position job just to lead a stress-free lifestyle...after going thru so much...nothing matters more than health...luckily i am able to do so with my hubby's support..hehe...and now being a part time tai tai cum tutor...i finally have time to take a hobby which i longed to learn...DOG GROOMING...yeah!! Hubby is very supportive by enquiring the schools and signing up for me..with a mini schnauzer and husky at home now...i would be able to save money by grooming my own dogs...hehe...by the way...we will be introducing another new member (Golden Retreiver) to our family in a year time...*so happy* Ya...me and hubby are dogs lover!! Another good news is i am now preparing for my wedding...though lazy..but still have to do it...have already shortlisted the bridal shops and hotels..now only pending for my decision...errr....i am still contemplating...but have to confirm everything ASAP as i need the gowns for my overseas photoshoot at Australia in Sept..wedding is really no joke man!! So tiring...